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Around the year 1080, in the city of Saragossa in Muslim Spain, a judge went looking for a certain kind of book and discovered that nobody had written it.
On 6 March 2007, Safaricom, Kenya's largest mobile operator, launched a service that had started life as a scheme for repaying microfinance loans. During the pilot, something unplanned kept happening. Users mostly...
In Chapter 24 of Family Wealth Management, their 2024 manual for wealthy families, Mark Haynes Daniell and Tom McCullough pass on the words of a man looking back over his whole adult life. He had grown up inside serious...
Sometime in the years before 2014, at one of the conferences the wealth industry holds for the adult children of its clients, a young woman was introduced, once again, as a member of the "next generation." She had heard...
In the fourteenth chapter of Lifetime to Legacy, published in 2022, the Nigerian family business consultant Nike Anani writes two passages, a few pages apart, that most authors would have split into two opposing books.
On page 71 of a 2014 book called The Voice of the Rising Generation, a man in his forties says something that stops the page cold. He is talking about his own children, and about the question every parent gets asked at...
The spreadsheet is fourteen rows long and the marriage is fourteen weeks old. It is a Sunday evening, the plates are cleared, and a couple is doing the thing every money book tells newlyweds to do: building their first...
From 1951 until 1994, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson led the Chabad-Lubavitch movement from a building in Brooklyn, New York, and by the later decades of that run he was, by most measures, the most influential rabbi...
The Talmud's minor tractate Semahot preserves a story about a walk that went wrong.
In the early 1900s, in the crowded immigrant streets of Brownsville, Brooklyn, a boy named Isidor Isaac Rabi came home from school every afternoon to a question. His family was poor. His parents had arrived from Galicia...
In Salt Lake City, Utah, the estate planning attorneys Andrew Howell and David York spent years watching wealthy families try to pass down more than money, and mostly fail at it. In their 2015 book Entrusted: Building a...
In June 1858, the richest city on earth could not use its own parliament. London was in the middle of a heatwave, the Thames had become an open drain for two million people, and the smell rising off the river was so...
Part of Family E, the LegacyPot persona anthologies. Fifteen guides, sequenced. The teenage years are the last long stretch of daily influence a parent gets, and they are the years money becomes real to a child. A first phone is a first wallet. A holiday job is a classroom. A...
The day you hand your teenager their first smartphone, you are not giving them a phone. You are opening their first bank branch, staffing it with a fifteen-year-old, and putting it in their pocket. Mobile money, in-app purchases, betting apps, payment links from strangers: the...
An allowance teaches a child that money is finite. A budget teaches a teenager that money has jobs. These are different lessons, and most families never make the handover between them. The child who started with [a real allowance and real...
If your family runs [Numbers Night](/blog/numbers-night), the monthly ritual where statements come out, categories get sorted, and one decision gets written down, your younger children have probably been watching from age eight. Watching is the right job for an eight-year-old....
By the time your teenager can argue with you about airtime, they have already inherited most of your money beliefs. Not the ones you meant to teach. The ones you broadcast, at the table, in the car, in the argument they overheard through the wall. The corpus's finding on [the...
School holidays are the most underused asset in your teenager's education. Three or four times a year, the timetable empties, and most families fill the space with rest, screens, and errands. Meanwhile the corpus is blunt about what those weeks could be doing: [the first job is...
One day your teenager comes home with money you did not give them. She has been making liquid soap and selling it to neighbors. He fixes classmates' phone screens. She takes art commissions on Instagram. He does small online tasks after homework. The first family reaction is...
Your teenager has probably already learned to save. The jar, the teen account, the save share that leaves the wallet on arrival. Saving is the right first lesson, and it has a ceiling: saved money sits still. Somewhere in the teen years comes the moment for the next idea, the...
Somewhere in the first year of your teenager's first smartphone, a lender will introduce itself. Not a person. A screen. A quick-loan app promising money in minutes, no paperwork, no guarantor, no questions. An in-wallet offer saying you qualify for a small advance, tap to...
The day you drop your teenager at boarding school with a term's pocket money, something changes that most families never name. For the first time in their life, your child is running a budget you cannot see, cannot supervise, and cannot quietly rescue at bedtime. Ninety days,...
Sometime in the teenage years, your child will come home carrying a comparison. A classmate's new phone. The shoes half the class is wearing. The friend whose family flies places, posts it, and gets the comments. The request that follows, whether it arrives as a plea or a sulk,...
There is a week in every school system when the results come out, and in thousands of households that same week becomes the first honest conversation about university money. The child has an admission letter in one hand. The parents have a number in their heads that they have...