Widows and Widowers — LegacyPot Journal

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  1. One Point of Failure

    Take an honest inventory of where your family's wealth actually lives. For most families reading this, the answer is one place. One business that everything depends on. One plot of land that holds...

  2. Write It Down Before the Crisis

    The week after the funeral is when a family discovers what was never written down. A widow sits at the table her husband managed everything from, holding a phone full of mobile money confirmations...

  3. What Sally Kept

    There is a financial examination almost nobody rehearses for, and it arrives on the worst day of your life. A wife buries her husband, or a husband his wife, and within weeks, sometimes days, the...

  4. What Elizabeth Was Owed

    Joe Robbie did what the advice columns tell every responsible person to do. He made a plan. Before his death in 1990, the one-time owner of the Miami Dolphins football team and the stadium the team...

  5. The Bag-Lady Syndrome

    James Hughes spent decades as an American trusts and estates lawyer to some of the wealthiest families in the world, and out of all those years he kept returning to one observation that should not be...

  6. The Edited Version of Reality

    The story begins the way thousands of family businesses begin. A couple starts a company in the family home. She is the first employee, the cheerleader, the one with faith in the venture; he keeps...

  7. Letting Go Without a Funeral

    Two consultants who spent their careers inside family businesses once admitted, in print, to a fantasy about their clients. They had "often thought," they wrote, "about trying to find an ethical way...

  8. The Real Problem Isn't the Fighting

    A seventy-five-year-old widower owns eight jewelry stores doing about twelve million dollars a year in sales. His two sons work in the business and argue constantly, in the office, in front of the...

  9. The Boredom on Day Five

    A few years before she wrote her book, a financial adviser flew to Bermuda for a close friend's wedding and stretched the trip into a full eight-day vacation with her husband. It was, by her own...

  10. Collect for Love, Not for Money

    In almost every family home we know, there is a shelf, a cupboard, or a corner of a field that holds the beautiful things. The gold jewelry that came with a marriage and has been added to at every...

  11. A Life Interest, Not a House

    The sentence usually arrives within weeks of the burial, and it usually arrives from a relative. Sometimes it is said gently, over tea: "You know, this house was never really yours." Sometimes it is...

  12. What Your Will Doesn't Own

    There is a particular kind of peace that settles on a person who has signed a will. The lawyer prepared it, witnesses watched the pen move, and the document went home to a file cabinet or a drawer....

  13. The House That Waits for Two Deaths

    Elizabeth almost did not remarry. She was 55, widowed, with grown children and an estate worth 6.5 million American dollars, most of it left to her by her late first husband: a valuable home, and...

  14. The Will That Arrived Too Fast

    A mother in India, whom the court record calls P, had three daughters. When she died, a will appeared, and the will did something wills are perfectly entitled to do: it made one daughter, I, the sole...

  15. Before the Coffee Gets Cold

    Halfway up an unnamed slope in the port city of Hakodate, in northern Japan, there is a small cafe with a view of the harbor and an urban legend attached to one of its chairs. Sit in that chair, the...

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